Introduction

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Welcome everybody! I have created this blog for my college course called "Family Relations." As I begin posting, I will be stating information and opinions on the different topics we have been discussing in class. Along with my posts, I want to hear your feedback. I want to hear all the juicy opinions- whether you agree with my take or not. Please add your own views. Every discussion that will be held will be eye-opening and help readers to formulate their own ideas, values, and opinions. Thanks for tuning in!

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